Being betrayed by a loved one can be deeply painful! That said, being stabbed by a biological sister can undeniably ruin a lot and even spark the unexpected. A story making rounds on Reddit is about two sisters involved with a man. One of the women, 25, took to the platform and shared her heartache after her BF of 5years cheated with her sister.
More painful, her sister, 23, is presently pregnant with their baby and plans to stay in the relationship no matter what. The suspected US-based claimed her dad married her step sister’s mom when she was four while her sister was 3. They lived together most of their lives, we’re a family, and she and her sister were extremely close.
At ages 4 and 3, respectively, the sisters lived together and were extremely close.
The woman added: “She (referencing to her sister) developed cancer when she was 14 and was sick for about 2years. She’s since made a full recovery. During that time, my parents became understandably over-protective. They also asked a lot of me. I quit my extracurricular, so I could get a job (the money went towards her medical bills) and so I could drive her to appointments.”
“I didn’t go to dances, and any fun activities I did need to include her. I did almost all of this willingly, the exception being having to quit my high school volleyball team – I did throw a bit of tantrum about that but was swiftly punished. And I think having one emotional breakdown was pretty chill given the circumstances.” The woman explained she went to college; she met a man she named BEN to protect his identity.
One of the women went to college; she met a man named Ben to protect his identity.
She and Ben officially started dating in their 3rd year of college and moved in shortly after graduating. They lived together for three years. The woman continued: “We were serious until July when I walked into my bedroom and saw him f**king my sister.” At this point, the relationship ended, he moved out while her sister apologized for the incident.
Soon after, she found herself in a heartbreaking situation when her BF cheated with her sister.
“I thought she was giving me space, but last week she called and asked if we could meet up. She told me she and Ben were in love and told me as a courtesy before posting photos online. Distraught, I left her in the restaurant by herself and didn’t pay my portion of the bill. She later venmo’ed me asking for the money.”
Her sister then told their parents, who then called a meeting and saying they were disappointed that the Redditor wasn’t supporting her sister’s relationship with Ben. She stated further: “They brought up the fact that because she had cancer as a teenager, she never learned proper social etiquette and has a hard time meeting people. I don’t buy this, in part because I’ve seen her socialize just fine, and since we spent a good chunk of time she was sick together, that would also mean I should have bad social skills as well, by that logic.”
The woman was then dubbed Jealous by their parents for not supporting her sister and Ben’s relationship.
“They then told me that if I don’t accept my sister’s and Ben’s relationship, they might have to go no-contact with me. I reminded them I’m also their daughter, and they should understand my point of view, but they are adamant that this is about me being jealous of her. For the record: I’m not jealous. I’m not upset that Ben picked her over me. I’m sad about the end of the relationship and do feel betrayed, but lord knows that I don’t want to be with a cheater.”
It was painful that her sister chose Ben over her, slept with him, and continues to be with him.
The woman shared that she’s angered her sister chose Ben over her; she slept with him despite knowing they were in a committed relationship and continues to be with him knowing how it hurts her. Giving an update, the Redditor said her sister isn’t only in a relationship with ben but FOUR MONTHS PREGNANT. This implies she and Ben had been f***king for longer than imagined.
More hurting, the woman found out her sister was FOUR MONTH PREGNANT, which means she’s been with Ben than imagined.
As seen, the woman’s parents remain adamant that she should forgive her sister because she’s already ruining their experience of their first grandchild. “That’s right; I’m less important than my stepmom posting ultrasounds to Facebook. This is where we’re at.” This post has since sparked divided opinions, and giving another update; the woman shared she met again with her sister to speak once more.
The woman’s parents got so adamant that she should forgive her sister because she was ruining their first grandchild’s experience.
“I got in touch with my sister and asked her to meet up again at a park (no bill involved). I asked her if she was pregnant, and she told me the truth. She said she wanted us to still be in each other’s lives and that she wanted me to be in her baby’s. A Redditor (and I forgot who, I’m sorry) mentioned she may ask me to be the godmother, and that person was correct.”
“But as many of you pointed out – if I didn’t cut off her, I’d just become her bank and daycare employees. So I told her I could no longer be in her life. And I left her crying on a park bench and felt like the s**ttiest person in the world.” The woman then attested to sending an email to her parents, telling them how betrayed she felt and that she would be cutting off contact with them. Her stepmom apologized and explained she never thought her sister would live to have kids.
At the moment, the woman feels alone, crappy but believes she has made the right decision for herself.
Well, her dad said nothing while Ben tried messaging from a burner account the first time since the breakup but was eventually blocked. The story was equally shared on Facebook, and as some people suggested, the email was also sent to her extended family members. Some made it an us-versus-them situation, but the woman revealed that despite everything, she feels alone, crappy but believes she has made the right decision for herself and her mental health.