Relationship
‘I Fell For A Man 20 Years Older – He Was My Dad’s Age But Gave Me Butterflies’
In all, it was worth it, and there are no regrets!
Jana Hocking believes that AGE IS JUST A NUMBER! Having ditched dating apps and meeting men in real life, the writer recently felt drawn to a more mature man than she would typically go for. In her latest column on news.com.au, the Australia-based gave detail on how she met a guy through another friend who was far outside her age bracket, like a good 20years older.
Jana Hocking recently felt drawn to a mature man!
“He decided I tickled his fancy and put on the charm big time. I always brushed it off, and while flattered, had a bit of a chuckle about it,” Jana explained, adding that she ignored the advances initially yet went over to his place for a party with her friends. The writer attested she had the best night and soon fell for the older man’s cool charm.
The podcaster met with a man through a friend who was far outside her age bracket, like a good 20years older.
Jana ignored his advances initially yet went over to his place for a party with her friends.
She continued: “The next day, I woke up to a text from him and was surprised when I felt butterflies in my stomach. Umm. What’s that about? I thought to myself as I dragged my hungover body out of bed. For the rest of the day, he stayed on my mind. So when we hit the town later that night, I was excited to see him again.”
And undeniably, the writer attested she had the best night and soon fell for the older man’s cool charm.
“Now let’s remember, this was a guy, unlike anyone who has ever taken my fancy. He was spiritual and serious, and well, the same age as my dad!” Jana admitted she would have never swiped right on the middle-aged man if she had seen him on Tinder. Sadly, though, the pair only dated for about a month and learned a lot from one another.
Jana also admitted that dating apps had narrowed who she would go out with.
Sadly, though, the pair only dated for about a month and learned a lot from one another.
The radio producer revealed she was fascinated by their conversations and even learned things about the world she didn’t know before. She also learned that attraction is way more than just what you have in common with another person. However, Jana was broken when her older lover called time on their relationship.
Jana has since learned that attraction is way more than just what you have in common with another person.
So far, she holds no regrets, and the whole experience taught her not to rely on dating apps.
But so far, she holds no regrets, and the whole experience has taught her not to rely on dating apps heavily. Jana now considers going back to meeting people in real-life things rather than endlessly swiping through profiles on her phone. At the moment, it remains finger crossed while we wait to read who she would date next.
However, Jana now considers meeting people in real-life things rather than endlessly swiping.
