Relationship
Woman Reveals The ‘Tests’ She Gives Men To See If They’re Worth Dating
The testing techniques seem to have approval.
Gabby is single, yet she isn’t in a rush to find a soulmate as she has criteria for prospective romantic interests. If a match doesn’t meet with the bar sets, the South Florida-based will automatically rule out the man. Known on TikTok as @respectfullygabby, she uses tactics to test men to ensure they’ll be able to provide for her and protect her in a relationship.
First thing: Gabby believes the man must pay for the date. “Let’s stop this conversation and the back and forth, the 50/50, the bullsh***. First date, he needs to be paying 100 per cent. And if he’s not then goodbye.”
Her second test is ensuring a man cares she gets home safe, even if she tells him not to worry about it. She recently pulled this test on a match she’d spent a night out with at a bar in Miami. She said of the moment: “As we are leaving, we both had Ubers going separate ways. His Uber came first, and he was like, ‘Oh, no, I’ll wait for you.’ Me in my head, I’m like, ‘Oh no, you don’t have to wait for me.”
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She then complained: And this man gets into his Uber and takes off. It is four a.m. in Miami, Florida, where no good is to come. Everything is shut down, and I’m standing by myself in the middle of the f****ing street.”
“Immediately, no. If you don’t care about my safety and make sure I get into my Uber safely, you’re done. And then, if you don’t, go ahead and double-check I made it safely? Bye. This man failed my protection test, so he never heard from me again. Men, you need to be walking her to her car, to her Uber, to wherever to make sure she gets home safely. And then text her, making sure she gets home safely.
Thirdly, she tests men to see if they’ll give her their clothes if she’s cold.
“When we’re out, if you have, like a jacket on, or some kind of overshirt, I will always without a doubt, say that I’m cold, Cause I wanna see if you will give me the shirt off your back and if you don’t, you’re dead to me. And then if you do, I won’t take it. Cause he’s don’t get cold.” So far, Gabby’s video has since found its audience, with thousands of women sharing their approval of her testing techniques.
But then it has also sparked a backlash from people who criticized her for playing games. Here’s proof:
