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Woman Calls Men Asking ‘A Walk’ For Date As Zero-Effort Men, The Internet Disagrees
She’s high-maintenance. But standards differ between women, I guess?
Some women prefer coffee and walk on their first dates. Some see dinner as the standard for a date. Niche lovers might prefer special locations related to their hobbies for their first dates. There are all kinds of people and couples in this world, really.
Influencer Kornelija Slunjski shares that she absolutely doesn’t take ‘walks’ and ‘coffee’ as date options.
@kokobeaute NO to zero effort men #datingadvicefortheladies #datinglife2021 #datingtoday
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The influencer shared to her 60k+ followers on TikTok how some date options are just huge turn-offs for her. The video has gone viral with more than 2.6 million views and 283k likes.
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“I do not accept a coffee or a walk as a possible date option,” said the woman. “First of all, I’m not a dog that needs to be walked. Second, I have an espresso machine at home–works fabulous.”
Slunjski also points out that a drink is too risky – she’s not going to take that. A huge ‘NO.’
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For her, there’s only one decent choice to score a date with her – a dinner date.
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“You’re going to pick me up; we’re going to come to the restaurant. We’re going to see your table manners. We’re going to see what you order. We’re going to see: do you hold your chopsticks correctly?”
“We’re just going to, you know, study you a bit.”
Essentially, she wants the first date to be a proper one where both can observe each other. This has garnered many negative comments from people who think she’s looking down on people who love taking walks and enjoy a chat over coffee.
In a video to shade all the negativity, she rode a private jet, popped a champagne and once again asked if a dinner date is really high-maintenance.
@kokobeaute Reply to @dlink2020 let the trolls tell me what’s high maintenance #highmaintanence #highmaintanance #keepyourstandardshigh
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People couldn’t see how this is acceptable.
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But some had confusingly agree to her while seeing the negativity.
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