'I Came Out To My Husband As Bisexual 3 Years Ago– Now I’m The UK’s Most Famous Swinger'

‘I Came Out To My Husband As Bisexual 3 Years Ago – Now I’m The UK’s Most Famous Swinger’

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Vista Wife, a self-proclaimed ‘Swinging Lifestyle Ambassador, and Educator,’ has taken to TikTok to share details of her relationship. The TikToker, who doesn’t want her real name out in public, explained that she came out as bisexual to her husband three years ago and is now the UK’s most famous swinger. 

Vista Wife came out as bisexual to her husband three years ago and is now the UK’s most famous swinger.

vistawife via Instagram

“So one night, me and my husband were having conversations about my bisexual side. He had been told by a friend about this swinging website. So we signed up, and for our first meet, we decided to meet up with another couple. This was the best experience I’ve ever had.” Vista wife said, explaining how she got into the lifestyle.

She and her husband have met up with couples, single women, single men, and other couples.

vistawife via TikTok
vistawife via TikTok

She continued: “And after that, we just wanted to experiment even more with single women, single men, and other couples. From that very first meet, I knew that I loved the swinging lifestyle. I’ll never stop because others don’t like what I do. Swinging to the moon!” 

Meeting with another couple [her first time] was dubbed the best experience ever.

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Another of Vista Wife’s clips equally addressed why she is in the swingers’ lifestyle. She claimed it’s a misconception why people swing is because they have a boring sex life at home and insisted it’s not the case. “The number one reason why I swing is because I’m bisexual, and my husband doesn’t have a v*gina.”

Vista Wife

Vista Wife claimed the one reason why she swings is that she’s bisexual and her husband doesn’t have v*gina.

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“But it’s also about the adrenaline rush and the excitement. I get to meet amazing people from all walks of life, and I get to explore any sexual fantasies and desires that I want. We all have these desires, and it’s ok to explore them, and it’s ok to always want more.” Vista Wife’s stated. 

For viewers a bit baffled with the swinging lifestyle, Vista Wife listed some benefits, and they included:

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Better communication. 

Amazing adrenaline rushes.

More trust.

Meet extraordinary people of all kinds. 

Experience any sexual desire you have. 

Amazing connection with your partner.

@vista_wife

It’s true! Don’t @ me… #swingers #swingtok #facts

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When asked if she or her husband falls for someone else during their meetings, Vista wife responded, saying she and her husband’s relationship is concrete and 100% emotionally monogamous; hence everything they do is just for fun kicks and excitement. She insisted marriage and relationship are more than sex – it’s about everything else.

Other benefits are:

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Vista Wife also advised couples, saying they should ensure to discuss their rules and boundaries, open and honestly and the dos and don’ts before anything does happen. With this, they will be on the same page. When also asked how she stays emotionally detached, she confirmed that they don’t meet the same people all of the time, adding that they like to meet, take some time out, and go back in when they are ready.

However, Vista Wife has been using TikTok to be open and honest about the swinging lifestyle.

vistawife via Instagram