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“I’m A 19 Year Old Swinger – Me & My BF Always Get Jealous But Still Love Each Other”
Definitely not for eveyrone, but works for them.
Marley Roze and Gideon Mazikeen are a couple with a swinger lifestyle. Meaning, they regularly change partners but remain in a relationship with each other. The non-exclusive relationship baffles many people who wonder if they’re really happy about it.
19-year-old Marley and her 33-year-old boyfriend Gideon often share about their lifestyle on TikTok.
In a viral TikTok with over 3.3 million views, the couple answers some of the most asked questions from their followers. For example, “How can you say you love each other?”
They answered, “Sex with others doesn’t diminish our feelings.”
Some people are concerned about the hygiene aspect of the lifestyle, “What about STDs/pregnancy?”
The couple doesn’t take lightly of the matter and shared, “Protect ourselves like any single person would.”
“How do you not get jealous?” asked another.
“We do but we talk it through in a healthy way.”
The couple explained, ‘We’re not asking you to be like us, just asking you to understand that this is who we are. Normalise other types of relationships.”
They continued, “We’re happy, in love, and enjoy swinging. It’s no different than dating single people as a single person. You just do it together with your partner. It’s fun. It’s not something everyone will get or want to do.”
Marley added, “I just make everything fun ok.”
A curious TikTok user asked them what it’s like to lead a swinger lifestyle and the couple’s response was very positive.
“Honestly nothing has ever compared to this or made me as happy as I am with the love of my life.”
However, not everyone was able to process how their relationship works.
@marleyandgideon We’re not asking u to be like us just asking u to understand that this is who we are. #foryou #kinktok #swingtok #couplestiktok #gideonmazikeen #viral The Magic Bomb (Questions I Get Asked) [Extended Mix] – Hoàng Read
One person wrote, “If you want to sleep with other people, or ok that your partner does, that relationship is over. It’s friendship. You can’t say otherwise.”
The couple replied, “We’re happy, in love & enjoy swinging… so yeah, we’re saying otherwise Scruss McGruff.”
Another asked, “Why be in a relationship if you are just out with other people?” and they replied, “We are out together with other couples.”
One pointed out, “The risk of STDs/STIs is much higher having this lifestyle no thanks.” And another added, “Please do not try this unless you want to be miserable.”
Another wondered, “So what’s going to happen when one person wants to stop swinging but the other doesn’t?”
