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Emily Ratajkowski Admits She’s Secretly Dating Harry Styles For 2 Months
Emily hopes their romance may be long-term, while also confessing that Harry might be the one.
The model has let it slip, confessing she has been seeing Harry Styles since early February and hopes their romance is long-term. It comes as Emily Ratajkowski was recently filmed passionately kissing the singer after a gig on the latest leg of his aptly named “Love On Tour” concerts. A passer-by in Japan had caught the pair in a clinch as they took cover from the rain next to a silver people carrier.
Emily no doubt faced cruel comments after the kissing video, but she has previously admitted that getting caught on camera remains a constant concern for both her and the people she’s dating.
Speaking on the Going Mental with Eileen Kelly podcast, she explained: “It’s hard to avoid what people say online. I’ll read stuff on Twitter or, when I am on set, people will say, I saw that thing. It’s hard to casually date. “Every time I am photographed with someone, that’s happened even when I’ve only seen them a couple of times. If you’re dating multiple people at the same time, it’s pretty brutal when they wake up and are like, ‘I’ve only been seeing you for two days.”
She continued: “Now that I need to worry about them, it made it very complicated and gave me a lot of anxiety. That part of it has been hard, but otherwise, it’s been fun. I will be like, ‘Sure, I’ll go to dinner, why not?” Since becoming single, Emily has been linked to comedian Pete Davidson and actor Brad Pitt. On Valentine’s Day, she had been spotted with comedian Eric André but later hinted that the situation had ended.
Speaking about Harry in a recent podcast, the 31-year-old confessed the singer might be the one and also gushed over how great he is.
She stated: “I just started dating someone that I think I like, so that is different.” I was like, “He’s kind of great.” But if you had been talking to me four weeks ago, absolutely. I would be seeing someone, and then suddenly the way he would walk would be like, ugh. What do I look for in a partner? I like someone who is independent. I think, for me, that’s very important because I do have a full life.”
Of what she looks for in a partner, Emily stressed: “I’m attracted to masculinity, it drives me insane. If you want to psychoanalyze me, my dad was a hyper-masculine dude who was also a painter.”
The model insisted she doesn’t have daddy issues and has a great relationship with her dad, adding: “My idea of masculinity, from when I was very young, was this: very traditional, plays sports, fixes everything around the house, but also makes art and is very vulnerable. and that is super hard to find. It has led me in some strange directions, but yes, I am attracted to masculinity. “I need an edge.”
Emily claimed her partner has to be funny and that she sought good-hearted people who are thoughtful, have good politics, and are funny with similar interests.
She continued: “People have this idea of me being super feminine, and I’m actually not. There’s a traditional hetero game you play where you’re the dainty little girl. I’m not like that, but I don’t know if I wear pants. I’m dominant on some days, and on others, I want to be treated like a little baby, and it depends on where I am at. I want someone that is capable of taking care of me in the same way that I have taken care of other people.”
Elsewhere in the podcast, Emily revealed she had therapy to help her stop dating the wrong types of men before she met Harry.
“I was drawn to a specific type of partner before I went to therapy.” Now I feel I’m not as attracted to that same type of person. I don’t like a lot of men. I don’t go on dates if I’m not sure about them. I can get the ick. I’ve found that men, at least the guys that are attracted to me, always say they like superwomen, a woman that is successful, and all these things. They say that is what they want. But when they are actually in the relationship, they start to get resentful.”
“I will say, “I thought that’s what you liked about me, that I had this big life?” They get emasculated and resentful. That’s been my experience across the board. I’m hoping that won’t always be true.”
Speaking about splitting from her ex-husband, Sebastian Bear-McClard, the father of her two-year-old son Sylvester, the model alleged that the stress of it caused her weight to plummet to 100 lbs, just over seven stone. She explained that she got really skinny because she wasn’t OK and tried to take antidepressants because she was sure something was wrong with her. “From the moment we are born, women are taught to find a partner that completes you and we just had a child so it’s hard for me to walk away.”
Emily added: “Having a child is a wild thing for your body. Everyone thought I bounced back quickly, but I didn’t feel that way. I did lose a ton of weight, but it was probably from stress.”
“It didn’t feel like my body. I think I’m just coming back to myself and it’s a new body. There are things that are different post-baby. I’m embracing that. It’s just not going to be the same. I was about 100 pounds after my break-up and now I’m 15 pounds up, which is a lot on my frame and it feels so nice to have an ass and a good relationship to food again.” Emily and her ex-husband split in the summer of 2022 amid accusations he was a serial cheater.