Relationship
Christian Woman Reveals Her Unbelievable Marriage Rules Including ‘No Friends With The Opposite Sex’
No opposite sex friends, no thirst trap accounts.
Christian couple Bailey and Zac McPherson have been married for 3 years and blessed one and a half-year-old girl. Recently, Bailey dropped on her social media some shocking rules she and her husband agreed to for their marriage that include having boundaries in how they choose friends.
Bailey captioned her video, “Rules my Husband and I have for our marriage that make people ANGRY.”
Sure enough, her video with over 2.5 million views saw only 105k likes, while a follow-up video with almost a million views had less than 70k likes. She started the list with, “No friends of the opposite sex.”
It was followed with “No work gfs/bfs or being along with the opposite sex” and lastly, “no texting the opposite sex without the other knowing.”
The videos hadn’t been well-received as many people pointed out that those are signs of insecurities.
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The comment section has since been turned off as there were more negative comments than not. One wrote, “Sounds like a toxic environment. If you need rules to enforce trust, there is no trust going on.”
“Tell me you don’t trust your partner without telling me you don’t trust your partner,” read another comment.
In her defense, Bailey replied, “It’s not a lack of trust thing so much as it’s just a boundary of respect that we both feel is right for us.”
“Because I personally feel like as a married woman, I have no need for companionship with another man that I cannot get with my husband. My husband has no need for companionship with another woman that he cannot get from his wife.”
“And I feel like if you personally feel like you do need those companionships, specifically with the opposite sex, that you cannot somehow get from your spouse or those of the same sex, that’s a problem.”
Her other rules include no following thirst trap accounts, no watching r18 content, and putting each other first over parents.
“To me and my husband, it would be a red flag if my partner could not respect said boundaries. At the end of the day, I don’t expect non-Christians to understand Christian marriages.”
She addresses in another video that not letting your partner alone with the opposite sex is the “bare minimum.”
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And she shares how the ban on not watching r18 videos can bring benefits to people.
