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35-Year-Old Woman Says Men Ghost Her When She Tells Them She’s A VIRGIN

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35-Year-Old Woman Says Men Ghost Her When She Tells Them She’s A VIRGIN

Virgin and looking for love!

Sonali Chandra is 35 and a virgin. The Indian-American dancer shares that simply those two things are enough to scare men away, all because she wants to keep her v-card until her wedding day.

35-Year-Old Woman Says Men Ghost Her When She Tells Them She's A VIRGIN
Sonali Chandra

The model, who also works as a comedian in New Jersey, shares her belief in sex being a “sacred and special” act she wants to reserve until someone puts a ring on their relationship.

35-Year-Old Woman Says Men Ghost Her When She Tells Them She's A VIRGIN
Sonali Chandra

But to her disappointment, most men were scared away and even became “jerks” when she shared about it when speaking to Daily Star.

35-Year-Old Woman Says Men Ghost Her When She Tells Them She's A VIRGIN
Sonali Chandra

She shared, “I have only dated nine men – including three serious relationships – and all nine were jerks when they found out about my virginity.”

“I consider sex sacred and special. In fact, I don’t even like the word “sex”; I prefer “making love.” I’ll be ready [to make love] when I have a ring from ‘the one.’”

Sonali shared that she grew up in a strict household, and sleepovers were banned. Obviously, she wasn’t allowed to date.

35-Year-Old Woman Says Men Ghost Her When She Tells Them She's A VIRGIN
Sonali Chandra

She wasn’t allowed to attend the prom and wasn’t allowed to live in a dorm when attending college. She continued, “My strict upbringing absolutely has had a profound impact on my dating life. I was not allowed to socialize, and dating was a big no-no.”

35-Year-Old Woman Says Men Ghost Her When She Tells Them She's A VIRGIN
Sonali Chandra
35-Year-Old Woman Says Men Ghost Her When She Tells Them She's A VIRGIN
Sonali Chandra

“Dating is a life skill, and I was forbidden from developing that skill in my teenage and college years.”

She had her first kiss at 26, but she still has “no clue” about how dating works. She also often feels lonely and believes her fears of accidentally dating a “predator” was caused by her sheltered upbringing.

35-Year-Old Woman Says Men Ghost Her When She Tells Them She's A VIRGIN
Sonali Chandra

She even got involved in the dating show “Five Guys A Week,” which is where five eligible bachelors move in as they test their chemistry for a week. It didn’t work out, but she recalled the experience as “fun and relaxing” since nothing had ever worked out for her.

She’d also appeared on Dr. Phil, where she talked about the struggles and how her parents wanted to set up an arranged marriage for her.

35-Year-Old Woman Says Men Ghost Her When She Tells Them She's A VIRGIN
Dr. Phil

However, the idea “shocked and disgusted” her, and she was willing to remain single and a virgin for the rest of her life than marry the wrong guy.

35-Year-Old Woman Says Men Ghost Her When She Tells Them She's A VIRGIN
Dr. Phil

“I’m confused and perplexed. I have all these great qualities. Why is it so tough for me to find the one who won’t be scared off when I tell him he would be my first and hopefully only?”

She’s not giving up her principle and is positive about finding the true one. She continued, “I am looking for a chivalrous gentleman who is moral and ethical, handsome, ambitious, health-oriented, and will treat me like a Queen. I want what Priyanka Chopra has with Nick Jonas.”

35-Year-Old Woman Says Men Ghost Her When She Tells Them She's A VIRGIN
Sonali Chandra

She also spoke of how she’d recently reconnected with an old acquaintance, but their distance has remained a challenge to keep the relationship going.

35-Year-Old Woman Says Men Ghost Her When She Tells Them She's A VIRGIN
Sonali Chandra

She gushed, “This man is handsome, ambitious, and a bit older than me – I am so surprised he is still single. He has an incredibly calm demeanor, which balances my vivacious personality. I feel like I have known him for eternity, and I feel comfortable around him.”

“He was slightly flirtatious but was completely respectful of my boundaries, given that I’m a virgin. He didn’t even try to kiss me. Since our meeting, I have not been able to stop thinking about him. However, I have no clue what he thinks of me or when I’ll meet him again, which is heart-wrenching.”

“I do believe that friendship is the foundation of any relationship and that time will tell what happens between us. I know for a fact that my parents would love him.”

35-Year-Old Woman Says Men Ghost Her When She Tells Them She's A VIRGIN
Sonali Chandra

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