Relationship
Woman Who’s Been Dating For Years Revealed She’s Never Kissed Her Boyfriend
“Everyone has their own conviction. And you can all do it how you feel led to do it.”
A woman who’s been dating the same man for two years revealed the shocking fact that she’s never kissed him ever. And she doesn’t let people’s questions and surprised expressions change her conviction in the relationship.
This is Kaytlin O’Neall, a fresh high school graduate and her boyfriend. Relationship progress: handholding.
It’s gone viral with over 2.4 million views as people asked her reasons and how far they’ve gone if they haven’t kissed.
Drew, the boyfriend, shared the story, “We were best friends, and then we fell in love. So everything that we do is to protect and look forward to more in the future. I want to marry this girl with every fiber in my being, believe me.”
O’Neall later added that they’re preserving their chastity until marriage, which was how they came up with the decision not to kiss. She shared, “I ultimately landed on ‘I don’t want to kiss’ because I wanted to save that for my future husband.”
For her, kissing is included as an “intimate” act between couples.
O’Neall added again that her conviction doesn’t mean others who don’t share similar values are “sinners” and respect everyone’s boundaries. She shared in the video, “Everyone has their own conviction. And you can all do it how you feel led to do it.”
But some think the extreme ban on anything above physical touch sounds like a recipe for disaster. One commented they looked like “platonic life partners.”
Another wrote, “I can see the pain in his eyes bro is fighting back tears.”
“Girl that is your FRIEND of two years,” concluded another.
Some couldn’t even grasp how they classify as couples if they’ve never been involved in anything romantic as one wrote, “I don’t understand how you can be in a relationship, without any romance. Like what makes your partner stand out from your friends.”
But there are also those who took their side because everyone has the right to do whatever with their lives and commented, “I can’t believe ppl are complaining about what someone else does with THEIR bodies and questioning the validity and boundaries of THEIR relationship.”
Compatibility is such an important thing for relationships to last. Some people compared their relationship to buying a house without getting a tour. And while they’ve been best friends for 2 years, people weren’t able to see how things have been different since then.
But that’s also the boundary they mutually agreed on, as long as things work out well for them.
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