Relationship
Divorce Attorney Talks About Relationship Red Flags She Learned From Her Clients
“They are just not that into you.”
Ali Brady comes from a family of legal experts in relationship disputes. To be exact, she is a divorce attorney, and her mother has been one for over 30 years.
As someone who’s seen many breakups in their ugliest forms, people asked her if she could share some red flags from her perspective.
The clip, which has been watched 677k times, contains some truly eye-opening tips. She started off with the first red flag, “The number one tip I live by and tell my children is that they are just not that into you.”
“If you are unsure how someone feels about you, then they are just not that into you, and you need to cut ties and move on.”
“The second red flag is if you are living together and building a life together but not married, and that other person is acquiring assets and not putting your name on those assets, that’s a red flag.”
“The third red flag is to listen to the person you are with and how they talk about their former relationships,” she went to the third sign. Ali explains that their take on their serious relationships is likely to illuminate you on what it’s going to be like with you.
And the fourth sign might not be a red flag, but if someone’s on their fourth marriage, you might want to know maybe there is “something going on”.
Many came in with their own tips and agreed to her points. One commented, “Yes! Especially the acquiring assets/name part. I learned that the hard way.”
“My ex called all his exes crazy. That should have sent off alarm bells for me,” wrote another.
But some disagreed on sharing their assets after experiencing terrible times because of it. One person wrote, “As someone who has experienced a lot of financial abuse, my assets will always be in my name only from here on out. But I think that’s understandable.”
“I was married for 15 years, divorced now for 12, have been in a serious relationship for three years. I will never own property with another person again,” shared another.
Do you agree with everything she has to say? Or do you think separating assets is still the way?
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