16 Creepy ‘Nice Guy’ Stories That’ll Make Your Hair Stands

Men who think what they couldn’t have been rude are the creepiest and scariest of all. They seem to truly believe that they’re doing nice things to women. These men believe that it’s a favor they’re doing when he gives them attention, yet, we are just sitting here seeing how illogical their actions are.

No, being nice doesn’t mean you’re entitled to have your pickup lines received and invitations accepted. People have the right to reject and remove themselves from your presence if they feel uncomfortable. Why can’t men get this?

1.

“The one that was the most upsetting was a guy who had been my friend for years, who I was close to and confided in, telling me my boyfriend at the time had cheated on me. I wanted to confront the boyfriend and this “friend” kept dissuading me, telling me to just drop contact with him, and trying to comfort me with physical contact.

Obviously, I still confronted my boyfriend. He said no such thing happened. And it turned out my friend had made it all up.” – GlennCloseButNoCigar

2.

“I married my high school sweetheart. So in college, we had been dating for three years already very solidly. One day two of my closer male friends came to visit me at my on-campus job and both were really odd and kind of pushy about us hanging out later. My boyfriend/future husband was in school about 30 miles away and was very secure in our relationship, had no problem with me having male friends.

So I go hang out with these guys and they get really sweet and over the top with compliments and making dinner and all these things. So I get really weirded out and say, “I’m going to get going. Me and my boyfriend are hanging out later.” And suddenly the feeling in the room shifts and one of the guys says, “Why are you going to see him? I thought you broke up.”

Turns out some other girl with my name broke up with her boyfriend that day and they both thought it was me. So they decided to have some weird competition to be my next boyfriend. Or they wanted a threesome?! I have no idea. I booked it out of there. In case you are wondering, neither of them were invited to our wedding.” – 2PartridgesinaPetri

3.

“This actually just happened recently. My good friend from college and I, along with other friends from our program went out to a bar to celebrate finishing our degree. He kept feeding me shots but I figured everyone just wanted to be drunk and have a good time. The night is coming to an end and I’m quite incapacitated. My “good friend” frantically approaches me saying that he had just seen a guy put something in my drink (which I had just finished). He told me that I would soon be unconscious and it was best that he take me back to his apartment so he could take care of me. Being heavily drunk and also quite scared, I agreed and he helped me back to his apartment.

After making me something to eat and giving me some water, we set up camp for the night on his couch. He put on a movie and he said he would sit and watch me sleep to make sure I didn’t throw up or anything. As I started to dose off he started touching me, first on my feet and knees and then my upper thigh. I confronted him about it and he said after everything he had done he felt he deserved “compensation.” I laughed it off but after he tried to make a move again I got angry and we began fighting. He exposed to me that no one had put anything in my drink and it was all a ploy to allow him to make his move. After some more arguing, he decided it was best I left, and he kicked me out of his apartment at 3:00 am while I was still considerably drunk.

This is someone whom I’ve trusted and spent 4 years being friends with. Safe to say I’ll be a lot more speculative with future male friends.” – sadrefresh

4.

“So not a stereotypical nice guy really, but I met him at a party, gave him a ride home and after belting out “don’t stop believing” together, he asked for my number. We went on one date and texted for a week. Then Saturday morning, I woke up to 50+ texts that started with asking what I was doing (sleeping because I worked in the morning) and went all the way up to “I should just kill myself since no one wants to talk to me.”

I told him that was unacceptable as I had already told him I worked Saturday morning, but even if I hadn’t there’s no reason to text me over 50 times. If I’m not answering, I’m not answering.

He whined about being so nice, and how good he was to me and blah blah blah blah blah. Thankfully, when my friends asked why I was ignoring such a nice guy, showing them the texts was enough for them to drop it.” – Littlefingersthroat

5.

“Some guy messaged me online and seemed nice enough. Asked if I’d like to meet up with him. I said sure. He tells me a Starbucks between our places and said he’d see me in 30 min. I was like, “Woah, not right now, it’s 10 pm.”

He said okay, but he’d like to keep talking to me if it was alright. A few days later this exchange happens over messenger:
Him: “Hey what’s up?”
Me: nm, how are you
Him: I’m good.
Me: good 🙂

5 min pass so I assume he was busy for a sec.
Him: Well if you don’t have anything to say you f**king b**ch, don’t lead me on and let me think that we can be together. You’re nothing but a f**king wh*re anyways. Only wh*res lead nice guys like me on. F**k you f**k you you f**king wh*re.

Yep, nice guy.” – effietea

6.

“I was sitting at the bar by myself and this guy in a fedora comes up to me and we just start talking. He seems okay, we got into some casual conversation, then he starts talking about how he thinks girls should be nice to him if he does something nice for them. i.e. open the door for them or buy them a drink.

I tried for a solid half-hour to get him to understand that a girl was not going to fall head over heels for someone who thought that opening the door for them meant that they were a knight in shining armor. I tried very hard but he just would keep talking over me.” – truly_trying

7.

“I started talking to this guy from Tinder. We agreed to go on a date together, but when he arrived at the bar we were meeting at, I realized he catfished me. I called him out on this, told him it wasn’t going to be a good idea for us to date, and left. The guy proceeded to call me once a day for the next week, claiming we had such a good time that night, and we could be friends. After the first week, he started leaving nasty voicemails telling me that I don’t deserve such a nice guy like him. By week three, he just started screaming into my voicemail that I belonged to him. I kept the messages for a month in case the psycho ever found out where I worked or lived.” – ins0mnikat

8.

“I had a date with a guy I met through OKCupid. When he found out that I was (at the time) writing erotica for a living, he put his hand very gently on mine and asked, with all the sincerity in the world, ‘Who hurt you?’

No one hurt me, guy. I got paid money to write stories about people dickin’ each other, and I had a whale of a time. He absolutely would not believe that I enjoyed my job and that I wasn’t lashing out as a result of some obvious sexual trauma I’d had in my past that he could somehow ‘save’ me from. God only knows how actual sex workers cope on dates if that’s a common approach to people who aren’t terrified to openly discuss penises.

There was no second date.” – Portarossa

9.

“A guy at a bar bought me a drink (even though I really tried to not accept it), and he asked me if I was single. I told him that I was dating someone and he took the drink back and called me an “ugly wh*re.” Uh… okay… haha.” – Reddit

10.

“I went on a first date with a guy, casual date for coffee. It wasn’t terrible but it was obvious that we didn’t really click that well. He did the typical “nice guy” stuff during the date where he talked about how he was different from other guys, knew how to treat a woman, some talking down on “gym bros”, etc.

I ended the date pretty quickly as I wasn’t really feeling it, and had just gotten off of a midnight shift so it was past my “bedtime”.

He insisted on walking me to my car and opening the door for me. Fine, whatever. Then he hugged me, and when we went to break apart, he tried kissing me. I turned my face and he immediately got agitated, blocked me from entering my car, and said “What?!? No kiss?!”

I’m a pretty easy-going and tolerant person but that was the first time something like that had ever happened and I immediately felt a slight bit of fear, as the guy was blocking my car and was about 6’4 – so much larger than me. I immediately put on my super serious face and said, “No, sorry. I really need to be getting home now” and luckily he moved.

Took a bit of a break from dating after that.” – Spacecrafts

11.

“Kept trying to hug me. Like… every time he would see me. I’d never hug him back, yet he kept trying. I was a work-study then, and he’d go to where I worked just to see me. I’d be walking down the hallway with a professor and they’d watch this guy 5x the size of me open his arms to hug me as I walked by him.

Idk if it counts as “nice guy” but it was really cringy.” – romansapprentice

12.

“He wanted to impress upon me what a good guy he was, and he was also too scared to ask me out like a normal person. He killed two birds with one stone by having his “split personality” tell me it really wanted to kill me, but Nice Guy was bravely holding it back because he liked me so much. Obviously, I fell head over heels immediately.” – CeruleanTresses

13.

“I was on a dating website but hadn’t logged in in a little bit. When I did I found two messages from the same guy. The first one was telling me that he thought my profile was great, he had a dog and loved hiking. Okay, cool, I enjoy those things. The second one came two days later saying how “I guess you don’t want something real, b**ch”. His first message was actually decent so if it wasn’t for his crazy nice guy follow up I might have given him a chance.” – scarletnightingale

14.

“In high school, a guy I barely knew tried to convince me to tell my parents that I was going to a friend’s house but really go hang out with him. I was normally rebellious but got the feeling that my parents would be right in telling me I couldn’t spend time with him. I politely rejected his offer and blamed my parents so it wouldn’t be awkward and he retaliated by covering my dad’s car in dyed tampons. Patrick, you’re a f**king creep.” – jessfdgb

15.

“I’ve seen two guys get into a fistfight at an office Christmas Party over who was going to ‘help’ an intoxicated 27-year-old married woman get home… I managed one of these guys and subsequently found out he had sent her 80 emails in one day with all that ‘why won’t you talk to me’ ‘we’re friends’ etc stuff. He was fired but couldn’t see how he had done anything wrong.” – Solid_Snake080

16.

“Some weird guy was grinding on me at the club and I was clearly uncomfortable, so “nice guy” swooped in to save me and told the other guy I clearly didn’t want it – I was pretty grateful initially. 10 minutes later he proceeded to grab my waist and started grinding on me… I told him I had a boyfriend, and he said I didn’t have a right to “friendzone” him after he saved me from the other dude and that I was probably lying about my boyfriend. I had to show him Facebook proof for him to drop it and then he called me a b**ch and walked away. Like ok?” – totallytubular11