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‘I’m So Pretty But It’s Lonely – Women Hate Me And Men Use Me As A Trophy’
“This is just me giving you guys my experiences on how people treat me.”
A TikTok user has been getting quite the attention after she shares the challenges she faces as a woman who realizes her charms. The “Big Sis” persona shared that her charms and physical attractiveness both come at a price for her social circle.
Brenttanye Sharraine spoke in a video, “And this is not pretty privilege or anything – this is just me giving you guys my experiences on how people treat me.”
“Yes, I do get a lot of stares and I get a lot of compliments too. Some people gaze and some people scowl at me,” she continued. The New Yorker added, “I have never in my life noticed a man scowling at me, so it says a lot. I’ve been told I come off very intimidating, although I’m not mean at all to people.”
“I’ve been invited to events and meetings with business partners. I’m aware now as a woman in her late 20s that I’ve been used as a trophy before. I don’t allow that anymore.”
Her relationship with women is also affected, “I’ve been told by women that they thought I was a b**ch when they first met me.”
“I’ve been told by plenty of men that I look expensive, I’ve been excluded from friend groups even if I created the friend group.”
But the motivational speaker has found herself, despite growing up being told off by people when she acknowledges herself for being attractive. She shared, “My own confidence was not enough, so it makes sense that I left high school with barely one friend.”
@brenttanye Little reminder from someone that always takes risks and it still works out. There no rules that tells you that you have to continue on a certain path. If your heart is telling you to try something new and make a change give it a chance
♬ original sound – Brenttany Sharraine
Now, she’s not just a well-spoken motivator, she’s also an avid social media user with over 167k followers who often share words of encouragement with fellow women.
