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Jessica Alves, 39, Shares Disappointing Experience Of Dating As A Trans Woman
“Most men ghost me when I bring up wanting kids.”
In her quest to find true love, Jessica Alves has been meeting with men who only want to have a s*xual experience with her and are often put off when she mentions her desire to start a family. Accordingly, the 39-Year-Old has admitted people are scared and intimated by her look but insisted they’ll realize she’s a kind soul once they get to know her.
After coming out as a Trans in 2021, the Brazilian has spent nearly £ 1 million on almost 80 surgeries.
But despite the effort to transform her look, Jessica still finds it challenging to make a proper connection with men. In early August, the TV personality had been pictured with a love interest in Rome, while she previously enjoyed a whirlwind fling in Thailand with another love interest, identified as Jamie Budgen.
“I think that I tend to intimidate people due to my looks. But once they get to know me, they see that I am a nice, kind soul,” Jessica told DailyMail.
She added: “I get a lot of attention from men when I am out in public, on my Instagram, and my OnlyFans, but I am still a single woman. It has been hard to find the Prince Charming, who will eventually marry me and build a family with me. Most men that I have met are just after fun and when I talk about having kids, they get put off.”
While Jessica feels completed with her transformation, she yearns for two things – a husband & children.
She continued: “I’m at the age of 39 and have completed my transition now. I am a fully female. Even my birth certificate has been updated matching my name Jessica and my gender female allowing me to get married in the Christian Catholic church and that’s my dream to have a princess wedding. I feel very blessed and fortunate to be who I was meant to be at birth.”
“I love every single inch of myself and my being and I have being focusing on my personal life and discovering myself day by day as a woman.”
Jessica further called on the need to normalize having more Trans people on screens. She emphasized the need to see more trans people on TV and in movies to show the world that it’s OK to be trans and that they are like any other woman. “I feel beautiful and confident and have a lot to share and offer to the world.” However, the beauty had in 2018 suffered from depression.
At the time, she secretly took female hormones without medical support and mixed alcohol, which made her mental state quite unstable.
