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“I Send Boyfriend A Pic Of My Hairy Legs To Have A Laugh, Doesn’t Expect He Would Respond By Shaming Me”
“I can’t share my opinion with my girlfriend?”
What’s attractive for a lot of people can be completely different. Preference is something that changes as beliefs and media portrayals change over time. TikTok user bonedrymilkers thought that it’d be funny to snap a picture of her hairy legs with her boyfriend to make him crack up.
But she never thought the conversation would turn so serious because of her legs.
Her boyfriend called her “winter coat” as “gross” and even “unhygienic for a female.”
At 15.4 million views, many people told her to dump the man who’d made quite the ludicrous claim about leg hairs.
@bonedrymilkers does anyone know why men are like this #men #bf #relationships #gf #hairylegs #greenscreen #fyp The Time is Coming – Aery Yormany
The argument continued as she updated people with their conversations.
The man still couldn’t understand how people were angry at him calling her leg hair “unhygienic” and being rude about his preferences.
Eventually, the couple talked on the phone, and she briefly mentioned that it was “anti-climatic.” But it was over for them.
@bonedrymilkers Reply to @bonedrymilkers for those who wanted an update. our phone call was anticlimactic. it’s obvious i wasted my time#greenscreen butterfly effect – demo – Sophie Holohan
“It’s obvious I wasted my time,” she wrote in the caption.
People did not like the way he disrespected her by making untrue claims like “unhygienic” over leg hair “for females.” Many were agree on having preferences and how they do not prefer leg hairs. But making false accusations and being just outright rude about it to your partner was just wrong.
“Masculinity in a woman repels many heterosexual men (and also many other sexual identities, by the way),” Karin Lesnik-Oberstein who wrote The Last Taboo: Women and Body Hair explained. The professor explains that there is no right or wrong in whether to shave or not because it’s all about feelings “safe and welcomed as you are.”
People were telling her to dump the man.
